I certainly do not belong to any religious cult, nor do I pay any special attention to this doomsday prediction other than having seen the “2012” movie two years ago, purely for entertainment. Though I can’t keep myself imagining whether I would have done anything differently if we are sure we are left with less than a year to live.
With much temptation to recap and reflect upon the year of 2011, it may be more worthwhile than ever, to think of my new year resolutions. Regardless of the specifics, the resounding theme is always going to be: following my heart.
Deep down we all know what are the right things to do, but for some reasons we always choose to take a detour due to lack of confidence, obstacles, or worse yet, stupid and meaningless power play. If we say what’s on our minds, we could save precious time from all the guessing and procrastinating. Yes, it may appear tactless and reckless, but as I mention time and time again on my blog posts, let yourself be vulnerable at least once in a while.
Who are the ones that you miss the most? Make sure you reconnect with them in the new year. Like or even love someone? What harm does it make to express that without expecting anything in return? We used to think there is always time, and we know what we would do if the right moment comes around. But what if there isn’t time anymore?
Living your life truthfully does not equate to living it irresponsibly or at the expense of others. I am not saying we should neglect others’ feelings just because they might be in your way. But you cannot even start to care for others if you aren’t even honest to yourself. It’s time to ask yourself the hard questions, and demand the straight answers.
Over the past year, I am blessed with lots of opportunities to work and travel, the availability of lifestyle changes, the company of friends and loved ones, and all the new people whom I have met around the world – which certainly is the highlight of my year. Though I have been clearly less productive in the past few months, I am mighty proud of my blog here since it has given me an outlet to express what I believe in, despite the absence (or presence?) of an audience.
If this were our last Christmas and countdown, I wouldn’t have any last words since I would have done it all. All I want to say will be “I Love You” to everyone around me.
Because, there is always room for more love.
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